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They may be the experts, but even Drs. John and Julie Gottman can act out a messy argument! 🎭 In this playful reenactment, they show what conflict looks like in real life,
The Gottman Institute. . They may be the experts, but even Drs. John and Julie Gottman can act out a messy argument! 🎭 In this playful reenactment, they show what conflict looks like in real life, and how the same patterns show up in other disagreements. The good news? You can break the cycle with a repair. Watch the full breakdown on ...
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